my ex recently asked me out and i said i wud think about it since then he said he is not ready 4 a relationship can u explain and tel me when he will b :mf_dribbl

zeppy, be nice :bowdown: this looks like a job for the last samurai (http://gprime.net/board/member.php?u=41) , pm him, im sure he can help :xmas:

sorry but I can only read english. anyone wanna translate?

my ex recently asked me out and i said i wud think about it since then he said he is not ready 4 a relationship can u explain and tel me when he will b :mf_dribbl

Most likely never, sounds to me like he just wants in your pants.

dude, ex-girlfriends are just using code. DUH! she just wants you as the rebound guy. :no:

dude, ex-girlfriends are just using code. DUH! she just wants you as the rebound guy. :no:
dude, its a chick ur talking to, not a guy :bangin: hahahahahah! so silly

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shes using code! don't be fooled for a second! :notworthy

u sily person :toilet: what did i just say? :sleepy:

definately much more readable than the original post. My only response is:

Stupidity - Making the same mistake twice and expecting different results.

I dont know the exact circumstances, but I'm guessing he's an EX-boyfriend for a reason.

i have some explanations,
1. he got nervous of being hurt again based on past circumstances and basically chickened out

2. (no offense) maybe he's over the whole dating you thing cause when yous said you need to think it over that may have made him think that you're not into him but are doing him a favor.

3. (no offense) he's not into you anymore and found another girl (highly unlikely)

4. he just wants to be single for a while and see how that goes for him.

but those are just my explanations and i may be wrong...my best advice is sit him down and talk to him see what's going on in his mind and i'm sure it'll work out. best of luck to you

Uhm....don't go out with him.
I swear, youngsters these days...* rolls eyes *.

thank you for all replying but he says he is up for a harmless flirt what does this mean hes up 4 flirting but not dating and i was the 1 dumped :ill_h4h:

thank you for all replying but he says he is up for a harmless flirt what does this mean hes up 4 flirting but not dating and i was the 1 dumped :ill_h4h:
:console: its ok. everthing will be all right :console:

ty u r a big help 2 me :biggrinth

well...here's one thing you can do....get over him, date other guys, if he said he's up for flirting then he just wants in your pants, or bj and all sorts if other sexual things that shouldn't be done.......men i swear, haha jk peace

we r only 13 :calich-s:

we r only 13 :calich-s:

holly hell and you're making that bigga deal?? dood you've god your whole like infront of you, there are gonna be more guys and there's gonna be more breakups and shit life is hell so get over it (no offense)

ok :clapping:

plz reply with more answers :mf_cupid:

someone said i should go for it as im two young two know wahat love is :queen_h4h

oh dear another problem
1. your only 13......wait until you and he gets older.... then you can believe in love and make it more special if you decide to go out with him.
2. noone can tell when he is ready but him......wait and then ask again if you still like him
3. if he has stopped talking to you, hes just being a jerk..........dont waste your time

but as i said wait til your older to make it more serious (not that way rude minded people!!!)
apperciate it for what it is
and as i say..... friendship is better than love
(thats only cause i cant get a g/f)
but its youur decision

kl :gun: !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

kl :gun: !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

do you know understand why i am the best........... sorry big headed of me lol
glad it helped

http://gprime.net/board/showthread.php?t=164

Uh...

So...

He'll be ready when you stop using bad netspeak? <3
Really, I don't know what to tell you. You weren't very specific. Unless someone here knows the guy personally besides you, I don't think anyone's going to be able to give you a decent answer...



@the_last_samurai: I don't think age matters, what matters is maturity. If, at the age of thirteen, she's absolutely certain that she can handle a relationship, then I don't see why she can't be in one.

i agree with the girl above me. Shes new, but smart ;)

NO YOU DON'T! IT"S THE DEVIL CONTROLLING YOU! AH!

well, as for advice, I have none. I just think, whatever you do is fine, although it may not be right, at least you'll learn...if you're smart enough to recognize the mistakes. Sure, it'll be painful, but what's life without a little pain, eh?

@the_last_samurai: I don't think age matters, what matters is maturity. If, at the age of thirteen, she's absolutely certain that she can handle a relationship, then I don't see why she can't be in one.


fair do's i spose but its better when your older neway..... you get to appritiate it more

thank you all of you heres more detail in our previous relationship he was touching me up but now he said hes changed! :girlchat:

ello??????????

hi, nice to meet u im jess simms, who the hell r u? :cheerful_

theres a new gurl he likes :blowup:

Well as a 16 yo I can understand what your going though. And i can tell you this from personal exp. DONT DO IT!!! Ive been through this several times and found if it dosent work out the first time then it wont the second. And regaurding to the subject of age difference, at your age it really shouldnt matter as long as hes not about to graduate high school or anything. But at my age things tend to get more...complicated. For instance i have a friends who is a sophmore in HS and is dating a guy that is going to graduate from CU university. Thats just a little to much difference for me. Another example is that i am fairly attracted to a girl your age (13). And would definatly concider asking her out were she a couple years older. Age is important here not because thats its wierd, but because she is not ready to get the same things out of a relationship that i do. But to get back to your question i would not go out with your ex.

good advise samurai. i myself are going through similar problems. well not like wat cheekygurl is but .... any way im goin out with a girl tht is nearly 2 years younger thn me wat should i do?

stay with her you cradle robber.
Just kidding. But don't break up with her otherwise she will have an emotional breakdown.

lol kk.
erm any other advice frm other ppl??

we r only 13

I got dumped when I was 12.... in January.

sorry but I can only read english. anyone wanna translate?

I couldn't understand a word..

i couldn't understand anything either, i don't care bout other languages but i feel we should all speak the same language

oh dear lord.. why do people get back with their ex's.. their asking for trouble.. hun dont get back with him especially if he dumped you.. he's probably just desperate for a girl... either that or his 13 year old hormones (that are probably barely there i might add) are starting to kick in.. hes immature and im sure you can do loads better...

well that depends if she is really ugly or not. Maybe her ex is the only one who will want to go out with her for the rest of her life.

well that depends if she is really ugly or not. Maybe her ex is the only one who will want to go out with her for the rest of her life.

lol aww... thats mean, n dont jinx it