View Full Version : Need Some Advice


Orange_Nose
05-13-2005, 02:55 PM
My gf told me that she wanted to experiment, and try new things. I don't really know what she ment, if I'm right it could be a few different things...

1. She could mean that she wants to experiment with other guys, meaning taking a break. (the only problem with that is that i dont see a need for this, because were not like merried or anything.)

2. She could me that she wants to experiment with other girls.(This would be interesting, to say the least)

3. She may want ANOTHER guy, meaning she wants me + 1, and thats kinda strange

4. She may want another GIRL, meaning she wants me + 1(girl). And this also would be kinda strange, but it would be better then having another guy floating around, but it takes away from the relationship, and the phyical attraction.

Help me out guys (and girls, don't worry I didn't forget about you)

blackice
05-13-2005, 02:59 PM
or she would want some new... 'toys'...

The first step is to ask her exactly what she has in mind.

flip dude
05-13-2005, 03:00 PM
or she wants to try out new sex positions.

Orange_Nose
05-13-2005, 03:00 PM
I havent seen her, she wasn't in class today, and i dont think she is in her dorm room...

And yea, i'm all for the position, but she would just say, "I want to try some new sexual poses" so yea

flip dude
05-13-2005, 03:01 PM
u should ask her what she means.

Orange_Nose
05-13-2005, 03:06 PM
I just called her, and got a-hold of her. and she told me to wait and see... I mean.. come on... what the hell... no fair

flip dude
05-13-2005, 03:07 PM
That is probably a good thing.

Orange_Nose
05-13-2005, 03:09 PM
Lol damnded if I know.. I'm lost right now

blackice
05-13-2005, 03:13 PM
Typical response from a woman. My wife seems to like to do that to me, but hates it if I try to do the same to her.

flip dude
05-13-2005, 03:17 PM
It makes you feel nervous huh?

Orange_Nose
05-13-2005, 04:58 PM
are you kidding. I'm sweating bullets, and blackice, I know what you mean... Girls don't take it well, and normaly you both end up in an over inflated fight... So yea... damnit

But please, people give me some advice, what should I do?!

treefalse
05-14-2005, 08:56 PM
Go with the flow. Wait and find out. Think of it as Christmas!

Orange_Nose
05-16-2005, 12:42 PM
Yea its a good point, but I think she wants another guy.Like to leave me. So I dont know what to do. maybe I sould get a penis implant, make my tool bigger, she may like that... that was a joke but yea. I dont know what should I do to win her heart back? ne feeback?

flip dude
05-16-2005, 03:09 PM
Do u know if that what she really thinks?

Orange_Nose
05-17-2005, 10:37 AM
GOD DAMN NO!!!!! and its painful to sit in this supence

flip dude
05-17-2005, 12:52 PM
why don't u just find out then.

BlueEyedBaby
05-17-2005, 01:08 PM
from a girls point of view... its probably a good surprise n ur prolly gonna love it.. your probably getting yourself all worked up for what could be nothing.. im not sayin that it IS good tho.. it very well could be bad (hope not tho) anyways... being in the situation that your in.. you just really need to ask her.. whats the worst that could happen... the worst that can happen isnt that bad if you think about it... if she breaks up with you because you asked a simple question(which she shouldnt i dunno this girl itd be easier to say if i did) then was she really worth it.. ur confused.. just have a nice calm talk with her.. itll make u both feel better...

Orange_Nose
05-18-2005, 09:28 AM
ha ha.. yea its bad.. ummm I kinda intersepted a message between her and some guy.. At first I thought he was only a friend, but when called back 3 minutes later, and asked if I knew where she was cuz he was her boyfriend, yea something wasn't right there....... So yea Right now im in class, so I dont think i can skip out of the lectutre, my proff will cut me head of infront of the entire class, BUT it is definatly going to get interesting when we all get together.... some ones going to die

and its probably going to be me

TheWraith
05-18-2005, 09:44 AM
But please, people give me some advice, what should I do?!

Dump her. And, when she asks 'Why?!?!', tell her you didn't appreciate being left alone in the dark attempting to guess at what she is thinking and feeling. She'll think twice about being so mysterious in the future. Besides, her 'wanting to experiment' is an admission of boredom. She is going to dump you soon, regardless.

Strike first. Don't be the victim of her whim.

Orange_Nose
05-18-2005, 09:56 AM
he he sweet.. someone witr some gutsy advice

BlueEyedBaby
05-18-2005, 12:28 PM
see this is where im of no help really.. because im a girl, and even i sometimes have no idea whats goin on in a girls head lol..yes, girls are confusing but thats just how it is... some guys get confusing too tho.. sorry for not being of much help... thought id give it a shot... : (

Brain Licker
05-18-2005, 01:16 PM
think Dr. Pepper - Whats The Worst That Can Happen?

or dont do anything and dont do anything!!

Orrrrrrr.........dont listen 2 me cos i spk crap :happy:

any way.. gd luck

cheekygurl
05-18-2005, 02:23 PM
tel us what the surprise is lol :happy:

flip dude
05-18-2005, 02:58 PM
I don't think he knows what it is.

cheekygurl
05-18-2005, 03:41 PM
i mean wen he knows :Confuzzle

plzjustdie
05-18-2005, 08:09 PM
Of course she means toys and new sex positions! If she wanted to break up with you, or have another guy or girl, she wouldv'e told you. Think about it. Everything you've seen, movies, read books, experiences. Do you really think if she was going to break up with you, she'd tell you she wants to experiment? I don't think so. That would be the first I ever hear. and when she said wait and you'll see, she has a surprise for you. This is no way signalfies anything bad in the relationship. Yea, I know girls are confusing, they're idiots, some of them. Just wait and be prepared for good things.

Orange_Nose
05-19-2005, 09:11 AM
ha HA, I WON... she told me that she would rather be with me then some other guy, that was oozing into her thoughts. YESSSSSSSSSSSSSS!!! so now im in controle of what can happen. I can dump her if I want, or stay with her...

h e l l
05-19-2005, 11:51 AM
hahahahaha.. nice so it wasn't any girl on girl experiementation or anything like that....nice control job :happy:

Orange_Nose
05-19-2005, 02:36 PM
Yea so.. case closed!

trevorXkillyou
05-25-2005, 11:03 PM
if she tries to throw on a strap on and **** you in the ass, just leave, no matter how hot she is, and never make eye contact with her again.

dave
05-25-2005, 11:14 PM
Once a cheater, always a cheater. Tell her you're leaving and when she asks when will you be back, say "It's a suprise." Don't take that crap from a chick. Or have fun ending up with VD when she comes home after a night at Big Dick Johnson's house and you get seconds.

bubble
06-15-2005, 03:00 PM
im a girl and trust me girls say pretty weird things, but enyway if she is thinkin of experimentingwith guys or girls, ask ureself if u would be okay with it if tht is what she means, but if know u need to stand ure ground and make her give u an answer, i mean afterall u r her boyfriend and u deserve that mount of respect, so just ask her and dnt bck down. dnt know if that helped, but u never know it may turn out to be something that wasnt worth all the stress.