hi i just thought u ppl cud help me coz my skools no good so heres the problem i go 2 skool and this girl i will not say her name tourches me day in day out a snide comment like u look horrid is enough 2 almost bring me 2 tears my mum has ben sayin ignore it and i hav 4 the past nearly 2 yrs but its also her mate that does it aswel they do that stupied disese injection al over and i hate it,its also my ex best friend she has made friends wit my bullys m8 and she is so snide and horriable but i darent liar her coz they all kno another girl who beats ppl up.but its also theses other girls who do physical violence they chased me down the road b4 threatenin 2 beat me up i just cant take it anymore my mum has sugggested goin up 2 the skool but then theyd kno id squealed on them and then theyd beat me up 4 sure and my mums suggested movin form but i aint sure just i cant cope any more! :bye2: :ill_h4h: :group: i want the world 2 b NICE!

ok here goes:

your mums right ignore it they'll soon get bored and hang around wih friends. when they see you hanging with then they'll get intimidated.....if worst coes to worse tell a teacher or in the case that i had.....hit em (not advisable tho)

ye my form teachers crap ive told him a few times b4 and al he does is have a word wit them and they stil do it ive considered takin my own life! :mummy: :angel1:

dont do that....... although they will feel bad about it you would of given in to them

have you talked to them at all
see what the problem is or if not go up to them and say sorry and then walk away........thats worked for me in the past

what u mean? :Confuzzle

I never had a problem with bullies because I aways told myself one thing.

It's not my fault.

That girl has issues that need to be solved, and many times, there is nothing you can do about it. But, if you go to the right people, they can help you in any way they can. If she threatens to beat you up, tell her something that will make her stop immideatly. What are the rules at your school there? In mine, if someone so much as waves a couple of cusses at you, they can get suspended. If they so much as sneeze on you after that, they get expeled.

Ask the people at your school to see what they can do. "Squeeling" on them is worse for them then it is for you. Remember that. And also just remember,

It's not your fault.

(I feel like a psychiatrist)

ty but our skool rules are crap ive told my form tutor agan and again and al he does is have a word!

what u mean? :Confuzzle

i cant explain it.............just saying sorry sometimes works but you have to give it time

well one suggestion i could make is getting friends. big friends. that helps some times. not to beat the crap outta those kids, just to look thretining.

If their scerewing with you, screw with them back! and if it comes to fighting... even though it shouldnt... make it be in front of some place where you know an adult will see. Get them mad. insult them. their either get pissed and leave or start throwing punches. but people cant fight when their angry.

Probably the best way to deal with this tho is laugh. thats right. They say something and you start laughing. point at em and break ouot in massive laughter. Find the weakness and use it against them if you have to. Mabye their really tall.

I know my methods arent the best but they work if you want to end it quickly.

the reason they won't leave you alone is because they know the comments they make bother you.. now even if they really do bother you, you just have to try your best to show them that you have an amazing sense of self confidence and that what they say and do doesn't bother you.. whatever they say just try ur best to let it go and don't pay any attention to them.. by reacting to what they say your just giving them the sick thrill they want.. they want to hurt you..and as long as they know they are hurting you they'll do it more.. i think its stupid that adults wont do more then talk to them but its not like they can really do anything else which sucks... but just as the saying goes.. what goes around comes around.... one day they'll get bored and stop.. or one day they'll realize what immature people their being.. all i can say is hang in there sweetheart and if you ever need someone to talk to about anything you can always pm me... and please please please do NOT commit suicide... (and one more thing.. physically fighting isnt the answer... thats stupid and solves nothing)

Probably the best way to deal with this tho is laugh. thats right. They say something and you start laughing. point at em and break ouot in massive laughter. Find the weakness and use it against them if you have to. Mabye their really tall. (i dont know why it wont go as a quote.. but just for credit purposes... wahlum said that lol)

** yeah i was gonna say that too but i forgot lol.... laughing will make them confused and they'll more than likely stop because they dont know how to react...[B]

violence may not be the best anwser. but it is an anwser. Every thing else possible should be done before fighting.

The person being bullied may not see it as an anwser. but the bully may see it as the only.

Probably the best way to deal with this tho is laugh. thats right. They say something and you start laughing. point at em and break ouot in massive laughter. Find the weakness and use it against them if you have to. Mabye their really tall. (i dont know why it wont go as a quote.. but just for credit purposes... wahlum said that lol)

** yeah i was gonna say that too but i forgot lol.... laughing will make them confused and they'll more than likely stop because they dont know how to react...[B]

other people will succumb to peer pressure and start laughing as well. The in-duh-vidual mind my be strong but togeather they are weak. you have to find the advantages you have and use them against them.

violence may not be the best anwser. but it is an anwser. Every thing else possible should be done before fighting.

The person being bullied may not see it as an anwser. but the bully may see it as the only.

yeah but what positive thing comes from fighting... what happens if u get seriously injured... 2 girls got in a huge fight last year n im in 10th grade...n one girl had to go the intensive care unit at the hospital and she got like a major concussion n half her hair got ripped out... blood was everywhere too.. i saw some of it happen.. it wasnt pretty let me tell u that... although they got in a fight over summin stupid like a skirt or summin it was dumb lol

violence sould never be ruled out. It solves may problems these days. maybe not with the best out comes. Jus look at america today.

i dont know.. i mean i personally wouldnt use it as an answer but for some people it works.. but it does have consequences.. i wouldnt recommend doing it on school grounds.... you prolly wont be allowed back

how do i pm u blue eyed babe and do u have msn?
:happy:

how do i pm u blue eyed babe and do u have msn?
:happy:

actually u know what? to make this easier u can just email me if you ever need to if you have email... and no i dont have msn ... but my email is blueeyedbaby@inmail24.com.... or private messages are at the top right of the main screen.. or any screen i think.. just click on the blue link that says private messages...

I didn't read the other posts sry about that incase i'm repeating... Right you say your having bully problems, i use to get that alot when i was younger i got really disturbed through it and i'm even more disturbed now at the ripe old age of 22 so i know what i'm typing about, The best thing to ask when your looking for help is what do you "regret" about school cause you'll find that most people have been bullied in school or getting bullied. **** the *****es at your school who are bullying are probably getting smacked off there dad or something even if they don't look like it but there are different elements and dossages of bullying.The best advice i could hand down to the next generation of people who are getting head ****ed by this bullying is look at it like prison take a look around and you'll see groups ie:-foes,pushers,gaurds,Nerds,Drugies and neds we call them that over here in Glasgow thats how we describe trendy stylish violent people.

Once you have established this and you may have already try and blend into that crowd no matter what and be as like them as much as possible, Now you have a purpose to attend school and avoid those ****ers at breaks and avoid that razor blade you've been looking at every morning with temptation. Now we have that dreaded journey to school and from school anybody who or has been bullied knows what i'm talking about am i right or am i right. Just change the ****ing journey i'm a bit of a hypocrite cause i didn't even though i wish i did now, even if it's like a 15 minute detour just take that detour if your not gonna bump into them or get a different bus. Classes now theres a good chance these *****es are in the same class as you i would change my class, But you have to do it like your planning for a big event it has to be flawless with no leaks so those ****s don't catch on like let on to everybody that you had a big fight with one of the teachers who teaches those *****es with you. But they have no idea that you discussed to your guidance teacher in advance to let you switch rooms because you can't study cause your getting teased and bullied and the only way it will help stop if she helps you with your lie i haven't tried that but it could work.

The golden rule bullies are cowards and are insecure of themselves and hate themselves never forget that because thats why they do what they do. Bigger people bullies hate people who are bigger,stronger,smarter etc. Do you have any of they people like friends family if so is there a certain date when there most at there worse if so you can use that against them by meeting that person after school but you have to do it a certain way not to let them know he's there for that reason like making that your tennis day or swimming day anything that envolves sports so you can cary that at the side of you when you meet him so they think thats your sports day or something you just need to break it down and work them out so you can beat them at the end.

P.s i know alot of original ways how to get revenge on bullys that was my way of surviving by making them fight amongst themselves and none of it had to do with rumours cause they always find out that way. But if none of that works i'll tell you those tricks, Keep your chin up:)

this is so sad this girl is looking for advice on the internet from people she dosen't even know. But anyway, umm just beat the crap out of her.

Eventually i got so big and muscly, they got the idea. Trust me theyre all insicure little ****s.

I don't give a damn what people think of me, but by hell would i stand around and do nothing, if i could go back, i would get the police on them.

this is so sad this girl is looking for advice on the internet from people she dosen't even know. But anyway, umm just beat the crap out of her.

I like this guys idea.

*Hrmph* just forget my "non-violent" way completely then! YA! YAY VIOLENCE!... (Sarchasm)

Seriously, just punch her in the boob.

bash their head in with a textbook :happy: be ready to run from the cops though :plane: <-or rent a plane like this guy

or you can go to the extreme and hire a contract killer!!!
(Just kidding)

can i get some other answers?

Well you could ask her to stop or you could fight fire with fire and start bullying her.

Meh.

Don't give the bully a chance. As much as you can, avoid the bully. You can't go into hiding or skip class, of course. But if you can take a different route and avoid him or her, do so.

Stand tall and be brave. When you're scared of another person, you're probably not feeling your bravest. But sometimes just acting brave is enough to stop a bully. How does a brave person look and act? Stand tall and you'll send the message: "Don't mess with me." It's easier to feel brave when you feel good about yourself. See the next tip!

Feel good about you. Nobody's perfect, but what can you do to look and feel your best? Maybe you'd like to be more fit. If so, maybe you'll decide to get more exercise, watch less TV, and eat healthier snacks. Or maybe you feel you look best when you shower in the morning before school. If so, you could decide to get up a little earlier so you can be clean and refreshed for the school day.

Get a buddy (and be a buddy). Two is better than one if you're trying to avoid being bullied. Make a plan to walk with a friend or two on the way to school or recess or lunch or wherever you think you might meet the bully. Offer to do the same if a friend is having bully trouble. Get involved if you see bullying going on in your school — tell an adult, stick up for the kid being bullied, and tell the bully to stop.

If the bully says or does something to you:

Ignore the bully. If you can, try your best to ignore the bully's threats. Pretend you don't hear them and walk away quickly to a place of safety. Bullies want a big reaction to their teasing and meanness. Acting as if you don't notice and don't care is like giving no reaction at all, and this just might stop a bully's behavior.

Stand up for yourself. Pretend to feel really brave and confident. Tell the bully "No! Stop it!" in a loud voice. Then walk away, or run if you have to. Kids also can stand up for each other by telling a bully to stop teasing or scaring someone else, and then walk away together. If a bully wants you to do something that you don't want to do — say "no!" and walk away. If you do what a bully says to do, they will likely keep bullying you. Bullies tend to bully kids who don't stick up for themselves.

Don't bully back. Don't hit, kick, or push back to deal with someone bullying you or your friends. Fighting back just satisfies a bully and it's dangerous, too, because someone could get hurt. You're also likely to get in trouble. It's best to stay with others, stay safe, and get help from an adult.

Don't show your feelings. Plan ahead. How can you stop yourself from getting angry or showing you're upset? Try distracting yourself (counting backwards from 100, spelling the word 'turtle' backwards, etc.) to keep your mind occupied until you are out of the situation and somewhere safe where you can show your feelings.

If all else fails, tell the Headmaster.


...courtesy of some website I found...

Take karate lessons, and next time he tries to shove your head down the toilet, why don't you kick him in the balls?

The bully is female.

I agree with what Rudy said.

Damn right.

I was quoting Donnie Darko.

Don't give the bully a chance. As much as you can, avoid the bully. You can't go into hiding or skip class, of course. But if you can take a different route and avoid him or her, do so.
Stand tall and be brave. When you're scared of another person, you're probably not feeling your bravest. But sometimes just acting brave is enough to stop a bully. How does a brave person look and act? Stand tall and you'll send the message: "Don't mess with me." It's easier to feel brave when you feel good about yourself. See the next tip!
Feel good about you. Nobody's perfect, but what can you do to look and feel your best? Maybe you'd like to be more fit. If so, maybe you'll decide to get more exercise, watch less TV, and eat healthier snacks. Or maybe you feel you look best when you shower in the morning before school. If so, you could decide to get up a little earlier so you can be clean and refreshed for the school day.
Get a buddy (and be a buddy). Two is better than one if you're trying to avoid being bullied. Make a plan to walk with a friend or two on the way to school or recess or lunch or wherever you think you might meet the bully. Offer to do the same if a friend is having bully trouble. Get involved if you see bullying going on in your school — tell an adult, stick up for the kid being bullied, and tell the bully to stop.
If the bully says or does something to you:
Ignore the bully. If you can, try your best to ignore the bully's threats. Pretend you don't hear them and walk away quickly to a place of safety. Bullies want a big reaction to their teasing and meanness. Acting as if you don't notice and don't care is like giving no reaction at all, and this just might stop a bully's behavior.
Stand up for yourself. Pretend to feel really brave and confident. Tell the bully "No! Stop it!" in a loud voice. Then walk away, or run if you have to. Kids also can stand up for each other by telling a bully to stop teasing or scaring someone else, and then walk away together. If a bully wants you to do something that you don't want to do — say "no!" and walk away. If you do what a bully says to do, they will likely keep bullying you. Bullies tend to bully kids who don't stick up for themselves.
Don't bully back. Don't hit, kick, or push back to deal with someone bullying you or your friends. Fighting back just satisfies a bully and it's dangerous, too, because someone could get hurt. You're also likely to get in trouble. It's best to stay with others, stay safe, and get help from an adult.
Don't show your feelings. Plan ahead. How can you stop yourself from getting angry or showing you're upset? Try distracting yourself (counting backwards from 100, spelling the word 'turtle' backwards, etc.) to keep your mind occupied until you are out of the situation and somewhere safe where you can show your feelings.
If all else fails, tell the Headmaster.
...courtesy of some website I found...
That is some good advice. For me I usually call some of my friends and then some of those friends threaten to call their friends who are in gangs. Then that's when the other guys just kind of scoot away and learn not to mess with me. But usually I don't get bullied because I'm taller than most of the people.
Take karate lessons, and next time he tries to shove your head down the toilet, why don't you kick him in the balls?
Haha...I definitely know where that's from.

Damn this thread is old...and of course G-prime will obviously not be a place where you can find a way to solve a bully problem.

fuck that.
Switchblade.

fuck that.
Switchblade.
Oh god, that picture is hilarious.

fuck that.
Switchblade.
That never works out really...then again it scares them away but he could always "tell on you".

That never works out really...then again it scares them away but he could always "tell on you".she* couldn't tell on you...if she was dead.

Oh yes...murder makes everything so much better.

From personal experience-Smart ass comments from friends don't help.

hi i just thought u ppl cud help me coz my skools no good so heres the problem i go 2 skool and this girl i will not say her name tourches me day in day out a snide comment like u look horrid is enough 2 almost bring me 2 tears my mum has ben sayin ignore it and i hav 4 the past nearly 2 yrs but its also her mate that does it aswel they do that stupied disese injection al over and i hate it,its also my ex best friend she has made friends wit my bullys m8 and she is so snide and horriable but i darent liar her coz they all kno another girl who beats ppl up.but its also theses other girls who do physical violence they chased me down the road b4 threatenin 2 beat me up i just cant take it anymore my mum has sugggested goin up 2 the skool but then theyd kno id squealed on them and then theyd beat me up 4 sure and my mums suggested movin form but i aint sure just i cant cope any more! :bye2: :ill_h4h: :group: i want the world 2 b NICE!
....HAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAAHA

well sweetheart i am a woman of 30 years old and i,m married with five kids and the oldest is eleven and i,m so sorry to hear that there is sick schoolgirls that bully decent and innocent girls like yourself but i,m affraid there is. I was your age once and i got bullied right from when i was at nursery to senior school and i,m afraid u can,t stop bullying cause my mother tried anything to get my bullying stopped and it did,nt so what i,m trying to say to is keep your head up it is what i did. I just stuck by it and waited till i left school properly and now them bullys are either druggies or alchoholics but you can bring the police in if thats what you really want if you can,t take it no more just do what your mam told you just move cause where i live were getting victimised and where moving so that could be the only option but try it out first see if you can stick at it and try to keep away from them try to avoid them as much as you can but keep your head up i really do feel for you cause i have been through it myself babes or there is one option hit them back twice as hard o.k

Uh...she's gone now, but whatever.

The intarwebs is no good place for advice

the internet is for........

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