Turns out since coming back to my school all my friends have started hating me, I came out on my last day before I left and everyone seemed fine with what I told them. But now since coming back everyone hates me.
Wow, and I can't hang out with the nerds like the would forgive me after I payed them out so much. I can't hang out with the really nerdy nerds because hell why would I want to the flock around the library and stink really bad. So now I'm left with two choices become a loner or light up a bong and become a stoner.

Loner sounds healthier. Congratulations on coming out by the way, didn't know you were gay. Sucks that your friends are being pretty mean about though.

Hey, if they are dumping you for being a homo, then they aren't really your friends. I have personally never had a bad experience with marijuana and being a loner ain't fun or easy, so I would say, light up brother. Just not too often.

It's not all of them just Ben, Stefan, Lachlan, Ryan, Kirsty, Bec M (for other reasons), George and maybe Cade, Michael, Dan, Jade, Chrissie and GG. There's more than that in the group but Cade was one of the ones that hates me so I really have no choice to leave the group. So I will probably have to become a stoner now.

i had a friend called gray who was a homo...
the school was tolerant of that but they started beating him up when he came to school dressed as a woman..

I'm going to hang out with some other friends while I give them a chance to cool off I spose, so for term 4 I hang out with the girls.

have fun!
take some pictures for me ;)
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Look in the pictures of yourself thread and the girls in that picture there yeah them and a few others are the girls I'll be hanging out with.

meh.. im lazy
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They are nice people and they are my friends, they also don't tease anyone so they are just nicer :)

yeah. i hang out with a group like that.
only now out area has become somewhat flooded with freshmen and related newbies..
this hasnt been good on the karma of the group
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Well I have to step down from being the most popular to being neutral, it's a big shift.

you were most popular?!
i thought the internet was for neutrals?
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not the most popular in my group but in the most popular group yes

oh ok.
im kind of the opposite i think
pretty popular in my gruop but my group is pretty underdog
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I'm just naturally a social person and kinda made friends with some kids in class one day and then they introduced me to their friends and I was like shit! I didn't even know I made friends with the popular kids when I started making friends.

lol
id love to stay and talk but i have a thread to make in celebration of breking 5k posts
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OK well have fun.

Ben and Lachlan were two first friends I made so I can't believe they hate me now.

Harsh, just remember to keep moving forward, keeps the rust away and that way you don't get hung up on just one thing and started having meltdowns. That is my universal advice, it applies to everything.

I'll probably end up coming back to that group I'll just give them some time to cool down.

lol faggot

lol faggot
What about logs?
lol faggot
What about cigarettes?

sticks all the way

sticks FTW!1!!

Homophobia is fun to joke around with, but when people take it seriously it makes no sense.

thats what happens when you're gay

Just hang out with people who actually like you and you like them, they won't ever hate you (not permanently at least) for being different.

Homophobia is fun to joke around with, but when people take it seriously it makes no sense.
Ya, it seems frivolous to me. I have never heard in the news "fifteen people were eaten whole by a deranged homosexual today, there were no survivors."
NOT ONCE

Wow gwia, I had no idea...but I can see your friends backing away if they're the popular kids-homosexuality isn't the general idea behind 'popular', so I'd be surprised if they accepted you again. But good job on coming out publicly. In the long run, that'll probably make things easier on you.

Kay this is gunna sound really gay, but I don't care. I love gay people! Seriously, they are way nicer, and more sensitive. Plus, a lot of them have great fashion sense. Like one of my best friends is a total fruit (he's fucking awesome) and he picks out like all my outfits for dates and stuff, and has even styled my hair on occasions. He is damn good.

It's not all of them just Ben, Stefan, Lachlan, Ryan, Kirsty, Bec M (for other reasons), George and maybe Cade, Michael, Dan, Jade, Chrissie and GG. There's more than that in the group but Cade was one of the ones that hates me so I really have no choice to leave the group. So I will probably have to become a stoner now.
Dude, you're friends are assholes.

Kay this is gunna sound really gay, but I don't care. I love gay people! Seriously, they are way nicer, and more sensitive. Plus, a lot of them have great fashion sense. Like one of my best friends is a total fruit (he's fucking awesome) and he picks out like all my outfits for dates and stuff, and has even styled my hair on occasions. He is damn good.
I, just LOVE homosexuals! I love em to PIEECES!
..

Dude, you're friends are assholes.
No they're just cowards. Last year and Year 7 they were awsome, at the start of this year even before they knew everything felt different.

Turns out since coming back to my school all my friends have started hating me, I came out on my last day before I left and everyone seemed fine with what I told them. But now since coming back everyone hates me.
Wow, and I can't hang out with the nerds like the would forgive me after I payed them out so much. I can't hang out with the really nerdy nerds because hell why would I want to the flock around the library and stink really bad. So now I'm left with two choices become a loner or light up a bong and become a stoner.
Well that sucks how people can push you out so fast for being gay. Then again, there are lots of people who seem to be all homophobic. You shouldn't become a stoner it isn't good for you and you'll regret it later. Personally I don't have a problem with homosexuals as long as they don't try to come on to me. I mean it's weird because usually most of the homosexuals I see at my school have lots of friends, especially lots of friends who are girls.

Yeah I dunno if it's just because of that though, well except for Lachlan and Ryan who told me they hated me because of that. They all just started to hate me after I told them, probably a coincidence.

but are you sure its really strong hate?
or just mild alienation?

Well Michael said that they hated me but they haven't been ignoring me, except in PE...

wait wait.... i've missed out whats been happening.

GWIA is a homosexual and now his friends are being dick??

ok well you know what, you're so much better than them if they wanna be like that, you're the better person and try to not let it get to you, even though its hard, maybe they'll come round?
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Kay this is gunna sound really gay, but I don't care. I love gay people! Seriously, they are way nicer, and more sensitive. Plus, a lot of them have great fashion sense. Like one of my best friends is a total fruit (he's fucking awesome) and he picks out like all my outfits for dates and stuff, and has even styled my hair on occasions. He is damn good.

I totally agree!! My sister god father is gay, and he has this boyfriend called david, they are soo cool, we go shopping and stuff, its really awesome.

I don't wanna be mean GWIA, but maybe now you feel a little compassion for that kid you teased into moving schools and becoming a drug addict?

I did before, now I'm trying to find where he goes and if he has MSN or something.

Hmm. This topic as a whole is interesting. People who act normal but are actually gay aren't the kind of people people associate with. Your options are basically become totally flaming homosexual and hang out with all the slutty chicks or pretend the whole gay thing was a joke and go back to doing whatever, which isn't really an option. So, I mean, there aren't a lot of gay guys at my school. Just one, I think, and nobody really has a problem with him. There are people that love gay people, like Gabby. You just have to look around.

I did before, now I'm trying to find where he goes and if he has MSN or something.

*GASP* Are you going to take my advice and apologize? : )

Yeah, but it wasn't just you it was also TPS, DP and Ariel.

and my axe!

Dammit gussa, it's my sword, my bow, and THEN my axe.

GWIA They are buttfaces. Why would even consider being friends with them again if they beeged you? Hating you for something so trivial as sexual preference is bull butter. And if they're worried about you coming onto them, you should totally rest your hand on their thigh when talking to them, or pinch their butt in a crowd. Asshats.

People who act normal but are actually gay aren't the kind of people people associate with.
Agreed

And I guess GWIA has chosen to do things much differently than me, in fact it took me a really long time to accept that I was gay and even longer to tell anybody, in fact I've only come out to 4 people and those were all in the past 6 months. That's because they are people I knew I could trust. I have 2 other groups of friends that I haven't told for various reasons (though they likely have suspicions), and it's not because they are jerks, but because I just don't really feel it's necessary, and not worth making things awkward. I'm not the kind of person to just run around and tell everyone that I'm gay, and I never will be.

But if people don't know then how are you ever going to find someone?

I'm 17, that's not really my main priority right now...

Well it was my last day when I told them and I suppose they're just creeped out now, they need some time to let it sink in...

I'm 17, that's not really my main priority right now...
Yeah, good call. At 17, things are usually at a very delicate balance. Work, college, school, future, and all the little things...you could really upset that by changing everyone's perspective of you.

I'm 17, that's not really my main priority right now...
That's like the only thing on my mind most of the time.

I'm 17, that's not really my main priority right now...

Yeah but don't you want to find someone eventually? If you are never going to be the "outta the closet lezzy" than how are you going to ever find someone?

Agreed
And I guess GWIA has chosen to do things much differently than me, in fact it took me a really long time to accept that I was gay and even longer to tell anybody, in fact I've only come out to 4 people and those were all in the past 6 months. That's because they are people I knew I could trust. I have 2 other groups of friends that I haven't told for various reasons (though they likely have suspicions), and it's not because they are jerks, but because I just don't really feel it's necessary, and not worth making things awkward. I'm not the kind of person to just run around and tell everyone that I'm gay, and I never will be.
jesus christ is everyone on the internet gay?!

jesus christ is everyone on the internet gay?!
Wait...you mean you're not?

Yeah, good call. At 17, things are usually at a very delicate balance. Work, college, school, future, and all the little things...you could really upset that by changing everyone's perspective of you.
The best time for a serious change of lifestyle is in the midst of other serious changes, when you're mentally prepared for a major shift. Plus, a transition to college will give you a new crowd of peers, a chance to present a different image of yourself.

Be who you are; don't flaunt it, but don't be afraid to embrace it. It's you, after all.

jesus christ is everyone on the internet gay?!
I know, Im suprised too

I'm a straight up hetero man, no worries here. A very open, hetero, and very comfortable with his masculenity, but a hetero none the less.

Straight all the way. I have no doubts..

I know, Im suprised too
Lots of people are gay.

Hmmmm, I find it hard to beleive GWIA is a homo.
A lot of his old posts always bashed 'queers and faggots'.

He was trying to cover it up, or hadn't accepted it yet.

A little bit of both Ryu.

Wait...you mean you're not?
when i clicked the link in the gprime sign up page.
i didnt take the part that said "warning: everyone in here is gay" too seriously...

I'm a flaming heterosexual.

Straight pride!

Shaes of black and gray!

something opposite of Baltimora!

when i clicked the link in the gprime sign up page.
i didnt take the part that said "warning: everyone in here is gay" too seriously...
You do realize that there are only 2 or 3 openly gay people here.

Just 2.

You do realize that there are only 2 or 3 openly gay people here.
Out of 5 or 6 posters

Out of 5 or 6 posters
out of the active population of gprime.

out of the active population of gprime.
Out of 3 or 4 posters?
Shit, I'm a SUSPECT!
http://geekologie.com/2007/02/ipod-bikini.jpg<3

nice...

WOOOOOOOOOOoOOOT!

The best time for a serious change of lifestyle is in the midst of other serious changes, when you're mentally prepared for a major shift. Plus, a transition to college will give you a new crowd of peers, a chance to present a different image of yourself.
Be who you are; don't flaunt it, but don't be afraid to embrace it. It's you, after all.
That's a good point...I mean, by this point you are about to lose most of the people you know anyway and open up to a whole new world, and all the serious changes like you said. But on the other hand it would be very stressing on top of a large pile of more stress...which is bad.
I'm a straight up hetero man, no worries here. A very open, hetero, and very comfortable with his masculenity, but a hetero none the less.
That's what metrosexual people say.
Just 2.
Heyyou27 was homosexual I think. But he left, so yeah. Two.

Heyyou27 was homosexual I think. But he left, so yeah. Two.
That's rich.


Anyways. Shit! I honestly just forgot what I was gonna say. Or even what this thread is about. Damn. Off topic sillies. Love you guys.

That's what metrosexual people say.


What is a metrosexual exactly?

What is a metrosexual exactly?
A straight (erm) man who likes to pamper himself, IE: Going to the spa, buying nice, high end/fashion clothes, gets facials, has a skin regime that involves more than running hand over face groggily, the like.

What is a metrosexual exactly?
Pain in the arse for gay men.

A straight (erm) man who likes to pamper himself, IE: Going to the spa, buying nice, high end/fashion clothes, gets facials, has a skin regime that involves more than running hand over face groggily, the like.
Pain in the arse for gay men.

Well thats definitely not me. Actually, I do bug my gay friends sometimes, but I kinda doubt its for any reason other than I can be annoying sometimes when I'm gofing around. Anyway, I definitely don't pamper myself, well unless you count masturbation as pampering. My maintenance routine is basically, get up, shower, brush teeth, shave (when I feel like it), toss on my least stinky clothes, slather on the deodorant and head out the door.

No it's just that if they're starting to act like us how can we tell which ones are gay and which ones are straight, confusing and frustrating.

Oh, lol. Well, then I might bother you. Cuz I hug my guy friends and stuff like that. I don't fear emotional intimacy like a lot of men do.

I do.

Well, I keep all my emotions bottled up like real men do, but every once in a while (after drinking usually) my guard comes down and I let a close friend in. After that there isn't much to hide, they are already about as close to me as they can get. So, after that point, I am more comfortable with them.

Well, I keep all my emotions bottled up like real men do,
As do I, which is why I think my "friends" were so shocked.
but every once in a while (after drinking usually) my guard comes down and I let a close friend in.
When I'm pissed I let everybody in, which is why I tried to not get that drunk before they knew... But now I drink like twice as much because I aint got nothing to hide.
After that there isn't much to hide, they are already about as close to me as they can get. So, after that point, I am more comfortable with them.
I just don't like touching people.

Lol. One of my friends is a hugely awesome fatty. But like, a good looking fat guy, and he is super comfy, like a giant pillow. But girls are way more comfortable for the most part.

I just don't like physical contact with anybody...

Why not? Thats kind of...unnusual.

No it's not is it?

To disdain human contact? Yeah thats kind of odd.

I just don't like physical contact with anybody...
so no hugs no kisses from men or women? No sex? or what? are you close with your parents (random sorry)

A metrosexual is someone who has physical relations with the subway.

I just don't like physical contact with anybody...

Why not? I physically contact my friends all the time. Not because I want to engage in you-know-what, it's because I'm random. I mostly put my hand up their sleeve and start rubbing their arm or slapping one of their cheeks then the next very rapidly. I also try to hurt them but that doesn't work because they're basically both made of steel.

Not liking to touch people/be touched by people isn't unusual. I mean, yeah, for me, sure, but in general it's not. I Know lots of people that are freaked out by random arm touchings and intimate stuff like that. I just happen to do it without thinking. Sometimes people give me weird looks.

so no hugs no kisses from men or women? No sex? or what? are you close with your parents (random sorry)
No I'm not close to anybody... I mean I wouldn't be if I found somebody but I suppose I wouldn't get straight into bed like most guys want (or at least straight guys).

How could you stand having sex when you don't like to be touched? I mean, didn't you bone some random chick?

He did but I don't think he liked any aspect of it.

Anyhow, I'm sort of impartial to touching. It's weird when a chick is all touchy feely all over me because I have a girlfriend and I'm afraid someone's going to tell her I like so and so or I'm cheating on her, and she isn't all about touching either. So I'm kinda...either way I don't really care.

I'm a huggy kind of guy.

How could you stand having sex when you don't like to be touched? I mean, didn't you bone some random chick?
Yeah but I dunno, I never used to care about touching people but I dunno, after that it seems I've become a little iffy about touching.

He did but I don't think he liked any aspect of it.
Not really

Well, I keep all my emotions bottled up like real men do,
Lame!
I'm sorry, but I hate when guys think things like that. :/
I mean, they have as many emotions as girls.
Everyone knows that. There's no need to pretend not to.
It's much cuter to be open about your emotions. [:

But you don't want a guy crying on your shoulder, you want him to be masculine.

ay thats true GWIA, some people would find it very weird, I know I've had this guy who i love/d (not sure if I know if i still love him?... anyways) he cried over the phone to me and i was like whooooa he kinda cried in front of me this one time when we spoke about "us" but it wasnt proper.

maybe once in awhile guys should have a cry, its not gonna make them a bad person I guess, I think what ariel is tryna say is that guys shouldn't bottle up all their feelings and they should talk about it and stuff.

Lame!
I'm sorry, but I hate when guys think things like that. :/
I mean, they have as many emotions as girls.
Everyone knows that. There's no need to pretend not to.
It's much cuter to be open about your emotions. [:

Yeah, but its harder for us (at least most of us) to express said emotions. Plus, a lot of us prefer to be big manly masculine men then emasculated emo men.

How come I don't? To tell you the truth, I pretty much cried when my friend Jacob beat me 4-times straight on Halo 3 Multiplayer.

That's pathetic, crying over a game.

Yeah but it was humiliating. *cries again*

How come I don't? To tell you the truth, I pretty much cried when my friend Jacob beat me 4-times straight on Halo 3 Multiplayer.

The key word was MOST. Not all men. Though, if you cry over a loss in Halo 3 you probably don't fall into the category of man. You are either: little girl, or drunken baby.

I have a problem with my eyes that makes me cry randomly. I was born with it, it sucks, everyone laughs at me for it.

Tell them real men shed tears and blood equally.

The key word was MOST. Not all men. Though, if you cry over a loss in Halo 3 you probably don't fall into the category of man. You are either: little girl, or drunken baby.

I don't really care that much

In my opinion there's nothing wrong with dudes being "in touch" with their emotions, but I do hate when they become all self-centered and victimized and emotionally dependent. Same with girls too. I hate when people have these emotionally-charged, highly personal conversations in public where they know complete strangers are going to overhear them. It's important for people to express their emotions but there's a responsibility that comes with it, and you have to know where and when spilling your guts just isn't appropriate.

Wow... I thought I was crazy or something for thinking that... but you and I are exactly alike in that area.

I keep a very arrogant and narcissictic, asshole-ish, yet friendly demeanor up for the majority of the time. I am far from emotionally dependeny. Yay me?